Is Your Marriage Child Centered?

or is your marriage "work centered," "money centered," etc... In my work with couples I have seen that marriages (and I am only speaking of heterosexual relationships at this time) that focus solely on their children and not enough time on THEIR relationship, struggle, to say the least. It is extremely important that each spouse takes the time out to say, "Hey, I need a date night with you." The message you teach your children is that a relationship between you and your partner is cherished. Remember, the greatest testimony of how we do as parents, is to see our children get into their own loving and fulfilling relationships. At that point we know we did our job, or at least we did the best we could.